First of all, Please read this question by a Muslima.
Please reopen the question, as it will benefit the asker, plus a lot of visitor, and our IslamStackExchange will be a reliable source for scholarly guidance.
When a person asks question about
love and relationship it tends to be verbose. In those cases, rather than closing it as unclear, why not re-word the body and make it clear?
When a desperate person recognizes what he/she is doing and asks for suggestion, we should help him/her. Because that will
- make us better muslims
- guide the asker in a right path and prevent him/her from being uninterested in religion.